Cool that you think not sticking around is being a baby but it looks to me like we live in the age of musical chairs when it comes to who we love/date. I can’t help who I fall in love with. I love this person. Until I don’t love them anymore, I will always give them a chance. Are there people that actually try in relationships anymore or do they just move on to the next one? Believe me, I am independent — I choose to stay with her. I am not stuck or trapped. I make my own money and do my own thing.